Our culture used to believe that women were not sexually active. They weren’t having fun if they were. Until recently, sex toys were hidden and stigmatized. Toys and help are now widespread. We, as women, must rediscover our sexuality. Couples recognize the importance of sexual intimacy in a good relationship. That is, not the photo-shopped in perfect monsters that does tricks to keep a man’s penis erect or shortly bring him to ejaculation. I’m talking about gorgeous, honest, true, and profound pleasure. Extreme physical pleasure and the mutual intimacy required to replicate it.
Another widespread misconception is that men are self-centered. They just want to get a woman and shoot a load. I’d think most males subconsciously want to be the best lover their partner has ever had. So, what’s stopping him? It’s not just lack of education or impatience, but the lady herself. Some guys are born to be excellent lovers, but women may learn to love like a sex queen. To know what she needs, wants and enjoys is a woman’s duty.
We females are experts at orgasm. We do it with our toys alone, often to the exclusion of males who just can’t seem to do it right. It’s just simpler to do it alone. Imagine having a partner whose touch ignited you, who knew your body and how it changed day to day, hour to hour, and accommodated that. …can you go quicker now, and harder…can you massage my Gpot at the same time (without breaking pace)? Please push harder… If you had a guy with an erotic massage London who could do this and take you to another universe, you’d be a more enthusiastic participant rather than an avoider.
Your perfect fantasy man will never emerge out of nowhere, forcing you out of your apathy and suddenly converting you into the sex goddess that you are. But YOU can discover what your body needs and how to communicate that to a man so he can fulfill it for you. It’s true, even the annoying ones that bug, guilt, and groan about not having sex this weekend seem to turn you off more and more after 10 years of doing the same thing. Men, bless them, are anxious to learn and enjoy our pleasure. What’s more? Affirming his wishes and allowing him to do so will bring you closer emotionally.
Ladies are opting for sensuous erotic massage London. Emotional scars are healed, body image is improved, libido is increased and a woman is educated about her body. Lessons in communicating and getting her wishes met. It’s a location unlike any other, a safe, pleasant haven of exploration focused on your body and its wants. Pamela Madsen is a prominent pioneer in this movement, leading retreats and seminars, but many Tantrikas, Dakas, and Dakinis, as well as private practitioners like me, have been practicing it silently for a long time. Women must awaken and reclaim their sexuality. They are not depicting a victim of sexual negligence. And we’ve understood that it’s up to us to make it happen.
